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Fireside Chat Ep. 258 — Should You Embrace Your Flaws?

Fireside Chat Ep. 258 — Should You Embrace Your Flaws?

Released Friday, 7th October 2022
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Fireside Chat Ep. 258 — Should You Embrace Your Flaws?

Fireside Chat Ep. 258 — Should You Embrace Your Flaws?

Fireside Chat Ep. 258 — Should You Embrace Your Flaws?

Fireside Chat Ep. 258 — Should You Embrace Your Flaws?

Friday, 7th October 2022
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0:00

Hi, everybody. Welcome to fireside chat

0:02

number. Two fifty. Two

0:04

hundred and fifty eight. I

0:07

want you to understand that except for

0:09

one which drives me crazy

0:11

to this day. It's two hundred fifty eight

0:13

consecutive. During

0:15

the entire lockdown period, we didn't

0:17

miss one. I'm very proud of that

0:20

fact because we live the normal life

0:23

like most people which said me

0:25

terribly, but I'm not gonna get into it because I

0:27

could easily get into that. I'm Dennis

0:29

Prager. Oh, so, of course, let me

0:31

explain. It is Snoopy for

0:34

the first time, two hundred fifty

0:36

eight times and the

0:38

first time he is in Otto's bed.

0:41

Otto is in front of me

0:43

and I have no idea why they swap

0:45

places So, Snoop, you have big

0:48

shoes to fill. It's expressive

0:50

self. Okay, everybody. I got

0:52

a great

0:54

thought for the opening. I wanna thank

0:56

Meghan too for this.

0:59

So I went over with you and

1:01

oh god, it went viral on the Internet

1:03

that I attacked the sign in

1:05

some elementary school class.

1:08

Why was it again? Let me see.

1:11

the

1:11

the world is great

1:14

is better because you

1:16

are in it. Mhmm.

1:18

And

1:20

III don't like that type

1:22

of stuff.

1:24

First,

1:26

who's the you anyway? because all of

1:29

them Anyway,

1:31

I don't I'm not gonna review. I wrote an entire

1:33

column on this

1:34

and the attacks on me

1:38

were quite ubiquitous on the Internet.

1:41

Prager attacks fifth graders.

1:44

That

1:44

was a common yes.

1:47

Dennis Prager attacks fifth graders like

1:49

that's really important to me to attack fifth

1:52

graders. I'm attacking the message,

1:55

the fifth grader. But if I

1:57

say that there are fifth graders

1:59

about whom

1:59

that's not true. The world is not necessarily

2:02

better than I'm attacking fifth graders. So

2:05

Meghan here decided to look

2:07

up another subject. What are

2:09

the messages of our society to

2:12

people on any given subject?

2:15

To her credit, she came up with

2:17

you came up with the idea. Right?

2:19

Well, it was on the list, but I just expanded.

2:21

On the list of what? Top you

2:23

want to circle back to?

2:25

About having flaws. Did III

2:27

mentioned that. Oh, okay.

2:29

Great. Well, anyway, Meghan did her homework

2:32

well. and I verified

2:34

this. I Googled Why

2:36

did I exactly Google flaws

2:39

and imperfections? Or quotes

2:41

about flaws? So

2:43

these are the top ones that came

2:45

up. Alright? Here are the messages

2:47

of our society. To you and

2:49

me, this is not the fifth graders. This

2:51

is to us about our flaws.

2:54

Ready? Your

2:56

imperfections are what make you

2:58

beautiful. So

3:01

I don't know. Should I I'm reading them

3:03

all and then analyzed, I think,

3:05

because it builds up into

3:07

some crescendo. embrace

3:09

your imperfections. They

3:12

are what make you. k?

3:15

So you just see that it's it's it's

3:18

grapically designed. Next,

3:21

your flaws are perfect for

3:23

the heart that is meant to love you.

3:28

I don't even understand it. Let let a

3:30

Lord agree with it. But it doesn't matter. That's

3:32

what came up. Here you go. Next

3:35

next message in

3:37

our morally demanding society

3:41

is

3:43

Everyone's perfect in

3:45

unusual ways.

3:49

Who comes up with this stuff? And

3:52

then finally, better

3:55

a diamond with a flaw than

3:58

a pebble without

4:01

And what else? I, myself, have

4:03

made entirely of flaws stitched

4:06

together with good intentions. And

4:09

then finally, there's a new

4:11

adjective, you're flossed.

4:16

That's

4:16

so beautiful. It's

4:18

better than awesome,

4:20

awesome. I

4:22

thought it had to do with flossing,

4:24

but I was wrong. Okay.

4:26

So let's analyze these here.

4:28

Why I I'm not a fan of

4:31

these messages. your

4:33

imperfections are what make you beautiful.

4:36

That's not true. It's

4:38

it's simply not true. It's actually your

4:41

wonderful traits that make you

4:43

beautiful. I

4:45

don't Aside

4:49

from

4:49

not

4:51

not morally demanding because

4:53

I assume they they mean character flaws.

4:56

IIIII don't think they're thinking of

4:58

physical flaws. and that's particularly

5:00

impossible with physical flaws. Your

5:02

physical flaws are what make you physically

5:04

beautiful. It's just silly. So

5:06

it it means character flaws. but

5:09

it's not true. Your

5:11

character virtues are what

5:13

make you beautiful. Your

5:15

the or

5:16

If, hey, if your imperfections

5:19

are what make you beautiful, then

5:22

the more imperfections, the

5:24

more beautiful you are. That's

5:27

quite a message. You know, I'm

5:29

I'm not I'm not there yet. I

5:31

I really need to cultivate some more imperfect

5:35

All of these messages

5:38

are part of the

5:41

crisis I really believe of our society.

5:44

that is not it doesn't make moral

5:46

demands upon people. That's

5:48

why I was against the self esteem movement

5:50

when it began. I was I was very

5:52

young but I was already in media.

5:54

I actually interviewed the

5:56

man who came up with the self esteem movement.

5:59

I remember his name. John

6:01

Vasconcellos, you could look it up.

6:03

He was a Democratic. Not

6:05

I must say, not not shockingly.

6:09

state senator in California. And

6:12

he he grew up Catholic with

6:15

and he said, oh, it was too rigid They

6:17

didn't grow up with a high self esteem.

6:19

I was told I was a sinner and so

6:21

on. So I went to therapy and

6:24

I got I got much better through

6:26

therapy because the

6:29

therapist cultivated self esteem

6:31

in me. So I know that's

6:33

what everybody needs. is self esteem.

6:36

Okay? I

6:37

think self esteem is great if you

6:40

earn it. But we'll we'll leave

6:42

that for now. Next,

6:44

embrace your imperfections. They are

6:46

what make you. What

6:48

does that mean? Embrace

6:51

your imperfections. Okay.

6:53

Here is the message, and this is

6:55

ironic because I am I

6:59

am making this fireside

7:03

chat of

7:05

the the let's see. The week

7:07

of the holiest day

7:09

in the Jewish calendar, Yom Kippur

7:11

or Yom Kippur, as it is often

7:13

called.

7:14

It's called the day of atonement.

7:18

Now, the day of atonement

7:22

is the opposite of embrace your

7:24

imperfections. It's literally the opposite

7:26

message. It should

7:28

be called the day of embracing your

7:30

imperfections. But it's

7:32

really the day of trying to

7:34

confront your imperfections and

7:37

reducing them. Nobody can get rid

7:39

of them completely, but the

7:42

beautiful human being works on

7:44

on their imperfections and tries to lessen

7:47

them. This is the this

7:49

is the opposite of the Judeo Christian

7:51

message. The opposite.

7:55

embrace your imperfections, they are what

7:57

make you? Really?

7:59

Is that how you think of anybody in your

8:01

life? I

8:03

would think that

8:05

it's clearly, it's part

8:07

of what makes us. Of course, that's true.

8:11

If you're missing a leg, it's people

8:14

know that you're missing a leg, but

8:17

where is you you what what you do is you

8:19

work around it to make a beautiful

8:21

life But if you can, you get a prosthetic

8:23

device. Right? You don't embrace the absence

8:25

of a leg. You

8:27

you try to undo the

8:29

damage of a missing leg.

8:33

So there's two two not

8:35

only meaningless but bad messages,

8:37

the next one. Your flaws

8:40

are perfect for the heart that is

8:42

meant to love you.

8:44

Boy, somebody really had a work

8:46

hard on that one. First,

8:48

I'm not exactly sure what it means.

8:51

Your flaws are perfect. In

8:53

other words, the heart that is meant to

8:55

love you finds your

8:57

flaws perfect. Do

8:59

you find your flaws perfect? Does

9:02

somebody else? Does

9:04

your spouse if you're married?

9:06

Do your kids? God,

9:09

I I love my mother's

9:11

imperfections

9:12

or flaws. God,

9:14

thank God for dad's flaws.

9:16

Who says that? We

9:19

we The the the heart that is meant

9:21

to love us loves us

9:23

despite our flaws. I

9:25

I agree,

9:27

but not not that the

9:29

flaws are perfect for the heart that

9:31

loves us.

9:32

every one of these

9:35

messages is is is a

9:37

bad message. Everyone's

9:40

perfect in unusual ways.

9:42

I know what they

9:44

mean, but first of all, again, it's

9:46

just not true. First of all, no one's perfect.

9:49

the

9:51

even allowing for hyperbole,

9:53

what does that mean? Let

9:56

me make this clear. Every

9:58

one of us

9:59

is closer to perfect,

10:02

the

10:02

more flaws we get rid of.

10:05

That that's the way it work. The

10:08

idea of embracing your flaws is a

10:10

bad idea. You can embrace

10:12

your idiosyncrasies. That's a

10:14

separate issue. I don't

10:16

think you have to fight your idiosyncrasies, but

10:18

we're talking about flaws. That means character

10:21

flaws. By definition,

10:23

we want to get rid of them. What

10:25

was the next though that finally, the the last

10:28

page of this,

10:29

better a diamond with a floor than a pebble

10:31

without.

10:32

That's true.

10:34

That's but that that isn't

10:37

a case for flaws. It's

10:39

a case for diamonds.

10:44

It's hilarious. Yes. It's

10:49

entirely true. It's like

10:51

saying, better a million

10:53

dollars with a hundred dollars of

10:55

counterfeit bills than one

10:57

dollar. That isn't counterfeit. That's

11:01

true. It doesn't make any point.

11:03

I,

11:04

myself, are made entirely of

11:07

flaws. Let me just

11:09

say this. If you

11:10

are,

11:13

Probably won't get that close to you.

11:15

Nor

11:15

will anybody else all stitch

11:18

together with good intentions. that's

11:21

probably my least favorite of the messages.

11:23

I did an entire preview

11:25

video on the general

11:27

worthlessness of good intentions.

11:29

The amount of evil done in

11:31

the twentieth century by good intentions

11:34

is much greater than the amount of

11:36

evil done by sadists. People

11:40

with good intentions supported the greatest

11:42

mass murder move movement in history

11:44

communism. Kill

11:46

the hundred million people. Believe

11:48

it

11:48

or not they were Nazis with good intentions

11:51

too. I know it's very hard for the

11:53

unsophisticated mind to grapple with

11:55

that fact. Not every German who

11:57

voted for the Nazi party wanted

11:59

to exterminate

11:59

Jews. They

12:00

wanted to improve the

12:03

horrible German economy. And

12:05

there were people, there were Germans with good

12:07

intentions that all Jews, they

12:09

believe the message Jews are our

12:11

misery. Intensions

12:14

I'm sorry intentions don't mean

12:16

anything. Behavior is everything.

12:20

Since I want me, I'm kipper mood.

12:24

I was just in preparing for my talks

12:26

that I gave at my synagogue. I

12:30

again came across a

12:32

truly terrific idea

12:36

in the second holiest work of Judaism

12:38

called the Talmud. This

12:40

is this is thousands and

12:42

thousands of pages. It's like a giant

12:44

encyclopedia

12:46

from about eighteen hundred years ago,

12:49

and it's arguments and

12:52

theology and philosophy and

12:55

morality and theology and

12:57

it's it's got everything in it.

13:00

And one

13:02

of the most amazing comments

13:04

in the whole book, the whole

13:06

encyclopedia.

13:08

is this. The Jewish belief is that you're

13:10

born with a good a good

13:12

desire and a bad desire or

13:14

or inclination if you will. It

13:17

depends on the translation, which

13:19

I I like because they're always in conflict.

13:22

my my my bad inclination

13:25

tells me to do this, my good

13:27

inclination tells me not to do this,

13:29

and it's very good from a very early

13:31

age. I knew I had to fight my

13:33

bad inflammation.

13:35

But the the rabbis, the

13:37

ancient rabbis, said, it's a good thing we have

13:39

a bad inflammation, which

13:42

sounds bizarre. Said

13:44

without a bad inclination, a man wouldn't

13:47

have take a wife, wouldn't make a

13:49

family,

13:49

wouldn't do wouldn't do

13:52

his

13:52

work, wouldn't

13:53

build a house, And I

13:55

remember when I first learned this as a kid

13:57

thinking, then what the hell was the good of the good

13:59

inclination? It seems like the bad

14:01

inclination did all good good things.

14:03

But they're they're pointing out.

14:06

One of the things they're pointing out

14:08

is that good

14:10

intentions

14:12

don't really lead to all that much

14:14

good. It's

14:15

good to have good intentions. But

14:18

without wisdom, without knowing what

14:20

good is, They're

14:21

useless. So this is a

14:24

particularly obnoxious one. I,

14:26

myself, am made entirely a floor

14:28

stitched together with good intentions. If

14:30

that's who you are, whoa,

14:32

you are a dangerous human being.

14:35

Your

14:35

entire flaw stitched

14:37

together with good intentions. These are

14:39

the messages that are being sent out

14:41

today. There's nothing about moral improvement.

14:45

All of my religious upbringing

14:48

And by the way, this is true for Christian

14:50

kids too in in solid Christian

14:52

schools. Is

14:54

about getting to be a better

14:56

person confronting sin That's

14:58

that's a term that that Christians would

15:00

be more likely to use. Jews

15:03

might more likely to use flaws.

15:05

Doesn't matter. It's the same idea.

15:07

you've

15:07

got to overcome the

15:10

bad stuff that's in you.

15:12

Why

15:13

why do Catholics why do Catholics

15:16

have have it's

15:18

called the the sacrament of reconciliation

15:21

confession. Why did

15:22

they have confession? If

15:24

you follow this, you go to the priest, you're

15:26

a Catholic, you go to the priest and say, hey, I got

15:28

great news, father. Listen to all

15:30

the flawed things I did this

15:32

week.

15:34

Right? Why

15:36

confess flaws if they're so terrific?

15:41

then you wonder why society's in trouble.

15:43

It's very, very hard to make good

15:45

people. It's the

15:46

hardest thing there is. It's easier

15:48

to make good rocketships to

15:50

the moon. than it

15:51

is to make good people. It's

15:54

very

15:54

tough.

15:55

That's what society's project should

15:58

be. Would you say this by the way

15:59

about a car now that I'm talking

16:02

about it? You know? Great

16:04

thing

16:04

about my car or it's imperfections.

16:08

What would

16:09

you say it about?

16:13

Okay.

16:13

That's our messages. Alright.

16:15

We go on to your your

16:18

questions.

16:20

Alright. Take it away. Hi,

16:22

Dennis. I'm Samantha. I'm twenty eight

16:25

years old, and I'm from Ventura

16:27

County, a little town, a whole city, Valley.

16:29

My question for you is as

16:31

a Christian, is it wrong, a question

16:33

so much of what God has written calls in the

16:35

bible and hours and everything?

16:39

Alright. Thank you, Samantha. One second.

16:41

Let me see if I can get this right. I didn't.

16:44

Well, I

16:44

ain't got it right on the second try.

16:47

By the way, little town in

16:49

Ventura County, Simmy

16:51

Valley is a pretty major place. By

16:53

the way, you will be shocked Samantha.

16:55

When

16:55

I moved in my twenties, when

16:58

I moved from New York City

17:01

to California, that was the first

17:03

place I lived. It was so then

17:05

it was tiny. It was like a village.

17:07

In order to get

17:09

a a full meal, you

17:12

had to go over the mountains

17:14

into what we call the San Fernando

17:16

Valley still is. There was there

17:18

were two restaurants in the entire

17:21

Simmie Valley when I moved.

17:23

That so

17:24

it's touching to me that that's where you

17:26

live. It's not a small town now.

17:29

So let's see. Is

17:29

it wrong to question so much of what God is

17:31

trying to tell us in the bible? So

17:34

here's an interesting observation

17:38

that you may not be aware of.

17:41

The name of the

17:43

the people of the book,

17:45

the Jews, is

17:46

Israel. Right?

17:47

That is that is the people, the children

17:49

of Israel, and so on. When

17:52

does Israel become a

17:54

name Well, the story is that

17:57

Jacob, the third of the patriarchs Abraham

17:59

Isaac

17:59

Jacob,

18:00

wrestled with an angel and

18:03

was given the main

18:05

Israel because you wrestle

18:07

with you wrestle with

18:10

God. and

18:10

you wrestle with man. Israel

18:13

means wrestle with God. Argy

18:15

with

18:15

God, struggle with God

18:17

however you wish to put it. It

18:19

is built

18:19

into the biblical idea

18:23

that if you believe in God, you

18:25

you will wrestle with God. That

18:29

that is a live mind.

18:32

So you're perfectly fine

18:34

with questioning if that's your

18:37

word. what God is trying to say in the

18:39

bible. However, I

18:41

I have good news, which is

18:43

why I work so hard on my

18:45

bible commentary, the rational bible.

18:49

I've spent

18:50

my life question But here's

18:53

the interesting part. I've always

18:55

believed there were there were answers.

19:00

And I was right. That's why I'm writing

19:02

my commentary because

19:04

it gives answers to difficult things.

19:06

I'll give you an example. There's

19:08

a law in the bible that

19:12

a a child who was

19:14

particularly terrible to his parents

19:16

should

19:16

be taken to the court

19:19

and

19:19

if found guilty, the child will

19:21

be stoned. To most

19:23

readers, that sounds so

19:26

premotive as to

19:27

invalidate the bible generally.

19:31

But I came to

19:31

realize something. the

19:34

law was brilliant. For

19:38

the first time in

19:40

history This bible, remember it's

19:42

thirty two hundred years old.

19:44

This certainly, this part of

19:46

the bible is. This

19:50

bible said for the first time in

19:52

history, parents

19:55

cannot kill their

19:57

child. That's the

19:59

point of the law. The point

20:01

does not kill your child if he's

20:03

terrible. He's awful. The point

20:05

is

20:05

you can't. You

20:07

have to

20:07

take him to a court, but no court

20:09

ever sentenced an Israelite

20:11

child to death. So

20:14

they maintained parental authority

20:17

but dropped it completely

20:19

when it came to taking a child's

20:22

life. That is an

20:24

example of, yes, I

20:26

question to, how could there be such a

20:28

primitive law? It turns out to have

20:30

been an credible moral advance. And

20:32

I do

20:32

that repeatedly. It's why I I ache for

20:34

people to read my

20:37

my rational Bible, the third

20:39

volume is coming out next week, deuteronomy,

20:42

the fifth

20:43

of the first five

20:45

books.

20:45

I think that there are answers to all

20:48

of these all of these

20:50

questions. And

20:50

on the rare occasion, I don't have an answer.

20:52

I acknowledge it. But

20:55

but generally and not generally. In

20:57

virtually every case, there is an answer. So

20:59

it's fine to question.

21:01

providing a look for answers and

21:03

know that

21:04

they're there. Abigail

21:07

Atlanta, Georgia, high dentists, With

21:09

midterms around the corner, what is your position on

21:12

political yard signs? That's

21:15

funny midterms. I thought I thought

21:18

she meant exams, mid

21:21

term elections. We recently moved

21:23

from Atlanta to the suburbs and our

21:25

new Nextdoor neighbor had a

21:28

Black Lives Matter Sign in our front yard.

21:30

We have daughters around the same

21:32

age, but I have felt hesitant to

21:34

be more than neighborly

21:36

toward her based on her perceived

21:39

values. Thank you for your time,

21:41

Abigail. I

21:42

think you should be super duper

21:45

duper friendly. with your neighbor with the

21:47

BLM side. I

21:49

mean it sincerely. First

21:51

of all, as a

21:53

great rule of life,

21:56

when when you

21:59

are not sure

21:59

how to act.

22:01

Always switch the shoes

22:03

as it were. wear

22:05

their shoes. So for

22:08

example, let's say there would

22:10

be a an

22:12

opposite

22:13

broadcast to this one

22:15

from somebody on the left.

22:17

And they wrote to the person

22:20

doing their fireside chat

22:22

You know, they had a Trump

22:23

sign or they had

22:26

a pro life

22:27

sign in their in their yard.

22:32

how

22:32

should I act toward them?

22:34

And I would want my

22:37

neighbor

22:37

act to act very

22:38

nicely toward me if they differed with my politics.

22:41

And that's how we should be toward them.

22:44

By the way, All it does,

22:46

if you don't act nicely, is

22:49

confirm their suspicion that

22:51

conservatives are not

22:53

nice. should shower them with

22:56

love.

22:56

That's why I am not joking. Now if

22:59

they're obnoxious fine, I understand

23:01

that.

23:02

But Let them

23:03

enter the world of cognitive dissonance

23:06

and tell their friends, you know.

23:08

I got this conservative neighbor

23:10

and they're really nice.

23:13

That'll throw them for a

23:15

loop.

23:16

right Alright.

23:17

Ethan, twenty two years

23:20

old, Pleasant Grove, Hi,

23:22

Dennis and Gang. That's

23:24

you guys. My wife and

23:26

I love to travel. However,

23:29

We find some of the most convenient times for

23:31

us to travel or when our

23:33

families have things planned.

23:36

We love spending time with our families

23:38

and value time spent with

23:41

family, but I'm not sure

23:43

how to prioritize travel

23:45

versus family time. What advice

23:47

do

23:47

you have for us? Thank you.

23:49

Well, Ethan, in Utah,

23:52

Well,

23:52

you're already married the twenty two, good man,

23:54

the wise decision.

23:57

Here's my

23:58

answer. Your wife

24:00

comes first. Protect

24:03

your marital relationship. It's

24:05

the single most important relationship

24:07

in your family. It's okay

24:10

if you're the rest of the family

24:12

doesn't have a trip with you as often as

24:14

you would like. It's infinitely

24:16

more important that you and your wife get

24:18

along than anything else in

24:20

family life. I

24:22

I'm I'm adamant

24:23

about that On my

24:26

for decades, I have told couples,

24:28

get away with one another

24:31

as often as you can. It's

24:34

very nice to

24:34

take trips with the kids, but

24:36

the kids grow up and leave the house.

24:39

And it's nice if they have those

24:41

memories On the other hand, even

24:43

nicer if mom and dad got

24:45

got along well. Okay?

24:48

So

24:49

I I am

24:51

pretty clear

24:52

on that one. Say

24:55

Jean

24:55

thirty three Tokyo, Japan.

24:57

Hello, mister Kroger. My question

24:59

for you is Have

25:01

you ever lost in a debate?

25:05

That's a good one. And

25:07

if so, how did you recover from

25:09

it? And what did you learn from

25:12

it? I asked this because now that I'm more

25:14

outspoken as a conservative, I know

25:16

I'll need to debate people

25:18

more. do you speak English so well?

25:20

because it

25:21

is a Japanese name. Mhmm.

25:23

Do we know

25:24

him? He was on

25:26

your radio fundraiser. He

25:27

was on the fundraiser. Yes.

25:30

So that's right. He's he's

25:32

Japanese American, I

25:34

think. Right? But he's in Tokyo.

25:36

Let's see. I I

25:38

know I'll need to debate people more. I

25:41

do wanna learn how to win. But

25:43

at the same I know how to not get crushed by

25:45

my defeats. I understand that searching

25:48

for the truth is not easy and I wanna toughen

25:50

myself up. Thanks and God bless

25:52

you. Okay. So let's

25:54

see. Have I ever lost in a debate?

25:57

So

25:57

that's an interesting question. I

26:01

remember on one

26:02

occasion, and it's interesting. It was

26:05

not a live debate. It was done on

26:07

the Internet. I didn't think I did

26:09

as well as I normally do.

26:11

Otherwise, I I've I've generally

26:13

always felt good

26:16

after debates but it doesn't

26:18

matter. Everybody loses. If

26:21

there's no

26:21

such thing as not losing,

26:23

there's only one

26:24

way not to lose. and that

26:27

is by not competing. That's

26:29

the only way you don't lose. But

26:31

if you don't compete, you don't get anything

26:34

done. So if you

26:36

lose, you have to figure

26:38

out what you could have done

26:40

better. I'll tell

26:41

you one general

26:43

rule that I have tried to follow.

26:46

And that is,

26:48

don't be the yellower of

26:50

the two people. If

26:53

you're the

26:54

calmer one, it usually

26:56

is very very much

26:58

more effective. But you have

27:00

to learn the issues there

27:02

are a lot of traps fall into and debate.

27:04

I'll tell you one because I I've

27:06

debated so much because I often debate callers

27:08

to my radio show.

27:10

I have

27:11

found and

27:13

I don't believe they do this intentionally.

27:15

People that I debate

27:18

whether they're pros or they're

27:20

amateurs as it were, collars to

27:22

my show, they often change

27:24

the topic. And

27:27

it it It

27:30

goes

27:30

by the audience. It it

27:33

it sails by the people don't realize

27:35

what they've done. And I try to

27:37

call them on, wait a minute. You're

27:39

changing the topic, so let's go back to

27:41

the point you made earlier. I'm

27:43

asking

27:43

you a question about that or something

27:46

like that. So, anyway,

27:49

yes, you

27:50

you you may well lose a debate. It is

27:52

not a reason not to not to

27:54

debate. is another great Hebrew

27:56

saying that was

27:59

on the

27:59

walls of my classroom. Again,

28:02

from the

28:03

book the Talmud And

28:06

I tell you, I learned a lot from the signs in

28:08

my classroom, and I didn't learn that the world

28:10

was better because I was in it, by the

28:13

way. or to embrace my flaws.

28:15

This was a great a great

28:17

line and it actually did deeply affect

28:20

my life. the easily

28:22

embarrassed does not

28:24

learn. I'm translating

28:26

from the Hebrew that it was on

28:28

on the wall.

28:29

and that's what enabled me to learn

28:31

my language as well. Because when I

28:34

started speaking, I

28:36

realized I'm making silly mistakes

28:38

or it sound like silly mistakes.

28:40

But when I realized,

28:42

don't get embarrassed at us.

28:44

I

28:45

was I was totally

28:47

at peace speaking a language imperfectly.

28:50

So

28:50

they would correct me.

28:52

So what? Do you

28:53

find somebody from another country who

28:56

speaks your language? Anything

28:58

but admirable, even if they

29:00

make a million mistakes? Okay.

29:04

Let's see

29:06

here. What what's our

29:08

timing? It's thirty

29:10

minutes. Oh,

29:12

I got another one. It was the other

29:14

one. Oh, yeah. From Norway.

29:18

and I'll

29:18

take the Norwegian. Put the Norwegian on top

29:20

for next week. Well, folks,

29:23

I can't believe it. Snoopy

29:25

was here the entire time.

29:30

You see that? Blue

29:32

Sashoff,

29:32

Blue SMM shows the more things change,

29:35

the more they're the same. Actually,

29:37

it's

29:37

not true, but just

29:39

like say. Anyway, it is

29:42

a change,

29:42

but at least we had

29:44

a canine pal

29:46

in auto

29:47

spot. wonderful to

29:49

be with you. See you next week

29:51

from my home to yours. Thank you for

29:53

being with me.

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