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All right, This is from Steve. This is

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from Asia in Richmond. Over

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three years ago. She says, I accused

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my husband of cheating. I was angry

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and very mean to him. He maintained

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his innocence, but I did not want to hear

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it. After sleeping on the couch and being

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ignored for close to six months, he

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divorced me. He just got engaged,

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and I have not been able to sleep or eat

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because I never thought he would

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get a new girlfriend so fast. I

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thought he would come to his senses and

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beg me to take him back, but no,

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he's in love with someone else. I

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asked him to meet up so we

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could talk. He turned me down and said

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that he wanted to talk to me for months before

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our marriage ended, but I was unbelievably

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mean and shut him out. He said he

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never cheated and I had it all wrong.

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Now that I've had time to put things into

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perspective, I truly believe him. Is

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it too late to tell him that I'm sorry before

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he marries this other girl? He is my

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soulmate?

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Yeah? No, he's nothing. Yeah?

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Oh wait, what

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he's.

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Not your soul mate? Yeah?

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You were convinced for six months he

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was a lying, cheating dog. You

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ignored him, You were incredibly mean

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to him, and he slept on the couch for

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six months. He tried to

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talk to you the entire time. You

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didn't believe it. Now,

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listen to me. I don't know what you

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think men are made out of, but

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what you cannot do is accuse of something

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we didn't do, make us pay for something we

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didn't do, and then want to undo

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it. He gone, he gone,

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he engaged, he

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gone, he gone. This is a rap. You

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can't get him, get him back. He don't want you back.

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No, he don't want you. And

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you've come to your senses now you truly

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believe him.

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She ran him away? Huh she did?

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Yeah, you right and drove him right about the creole.

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Wow. Oh well,

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I don't feel sorry for neither.

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That's what you want. She was wrong.

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I don't feel sorry for you know. That's what you do.

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And you know she

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called what? Yeah,

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sometimes they get it wrong. All

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right, we do have time for this one, Steve.

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This one's from Lacey in Detroit. Lacey

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says, I'm in law school and my boyfriend dropped

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out of law school to be a music producer

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and manager. This is not what we

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had planned. So I'm getting frustrated

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with him and our relationship.

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I want to be a writer or die type

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of chick. But he's asking me to

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lie to his dad when we go visit

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him this weekend. I told him

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I don't want to see his dad, and he told

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me that I don't support his dreams and

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I don't believe in him. Am I supposed

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to be okay with lying to his dad for

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him.

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Well, that's not supporting his dream. That's

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lying to his daddy.

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See you can't, you can't get it twisted. That's

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not supporting your dream. The woman

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don't want to lie to your daddy. See,

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she don't want to be in that part of it right here.

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You know they paying for law school. You

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don't dropped out to be a producer and a writer.

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I ain't wrote or produced a damn

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thing, Elbow. You

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know I'm gonna take something. And

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this is not a knock on hip hop. But

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hip hop has made more

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millionaires than any other music genre

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that I know of in my lifetime. I'll be the first

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to admit that. And I was wrong about

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hip hop a long time ago. I thought it wasn't gonna

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last how stupid was that? A statement? Right,

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which proves that hip hop don't need me to exist

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or thrive. But what hip hop

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has done, though it is created that delusion

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that since it's just rapping, that

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it's not singing, where you really

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really had to have talent, being

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able to rhyme and talk. Got a lot

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of people think that they talented and

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they ain't.

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All these little foods need to do is

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just look at Scarface's tiny

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desk and then go sit your ass

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down somewhere. This ain't what you do.

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Scarface showed you how to go. This ain't

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what you do. Go sit your ass

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down somewhere. You ain't no music producing

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writing.

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All right, I'm twenty minutes

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after the hour crazy,

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you're listening hard morning

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show